Part of our small group activity with the X-Kidz this Sunday involved them jotting down each other's prayer requests. The intention was to gather them and then have a prayer for each one's respective request. However, as it sometimes goes, we ran out of time and most of the kids took their lists with them.
So, my plea to everyone reading this is to please say a prayer for whatever and whomever the kids had put on their list.
(We will also revisit their prayer requests next week during worship time.)
Monday, August 24, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
"It Couldn't Be Done"
Somebody said that it couldn't be done,
But he with a chuckle replied
That "maybe it couldn't," but he would be one
Who wouldn't say so till he'd tried.
So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin
On his face. If he worried he hid it.
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn't be done, and he did it.
Somebody scoffed: "Oh, you'll never do that;
At least no one ever has done it";
But he took off his coat and he took off his hat,
And the first thing we knew he'd begun it.
With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin,
Without any doubting or quiddit,
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn't be done, and he did it.
There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,
There are thousands to prophesy failure;
There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,
The dangers that wait to assail you.
But just buckle in with a bit of a grin,
Just take off your coat and go to it;
Just start to sing as you tackle the thing
That "cannot be done," and you'll do it."
Edgar A. Guest
But he with a chuckle replied
That "maybe it couldn't," but he would be one
Who wouldn't say so till he'd tried.
So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin
On his face. If he worried he hid it.
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn't be done, and he did it.
Somebody scoffed: "Oh, you'll never do that;
At least no one ever has done it";
But he took off his coat and he took off his hat,
And the first thing we knew he'd begun it.
With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin,
Without any doubting or quiddit,
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn't be done, and he did it.
There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,
There are thousands to prophesy failure;
There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,
The dangers that wait to assail you.
But just buckle in with a bit of a grin,
Just take off your coat and go to it;
Just start to sing as you tackle the thing
That "cannot be done," and you'll do it."
Edgar A. Guest
Monday, August 3, 2009
Mine! Mine! Mine!
A couple of Sundays ago, this was the topic in our children's worship service: Operation Mine! Mine! Mine! It was awesome! (Jealous???)
Totally unrelated, I play this game with other kids sometimes, they want a bite, or a drink, or a chip. I grab the item and tell them Mine! Mine! Mine! And then, of course, give them whatever it is they wanted and we laugh and have some fun with it.
But, WOW, those three words are resounding aren't they? Kind of, sort of, sounds like... Me! Me! Me!
A few years ago, when I began really seeking what it was to be a Christian, someone gave me some advice that was life changing.
I was searching, seeking, walking around with all this inner turmoil, visiting churches (living in Virginia then) and just couldn't find one that suited me. I was coming home and weighing out what I liked, what I didn't like, etc. Who was nice to me, who gave me weird looks, what songs did they sing, how many pamphlets did I get, etc. I was really concerned about what I was going to get out of it all. I wanted and needed to be somewhere that gave me something to look forward to, moral and emotional support. I wanted to walk out of that building feeling lifted up. We've all been there.
But then, someone said to me: Maybe you should stop worrying so much about what you're going to get and think about what you can give.
Since I heeded that advice, my life has not been the same. I am so thankful that I can worship at Axiom Church and leave feeling fulfilled - I can listen and absorb the messages each week, fellowhip with others, laugh and cut up with the kids. But I wholly believe that that feeling of being fulfilled is because my focus is not on what all I can get, but what I have been graciously given and in return can share with others.
That feeling still creeps and crawls in every now and again - "what about me?" But, I just have to kick it to the side and remind myself that it's not about me. It never was and it never will be. All the Glory to God.
Totally unrelated, I play this game with other kids sometimes, they want a bite, or a drink, or a chip. I grab the item and tell them Mine! Mine! Mine! And then, of course, give them whatever it is they wanted and we laugh and have some fun with it.
But, WOW, those three words are resounding aren't they? Kind of, sort of, sounds like... Me! Me! Me!
A few years ago, when I began really seeking what it was to be a Christian, someone gave me some advice that was life changing.
I was searching, seeking, walking around with all this inner turmoil, visiting churches (living in Virginia then) and just couldn't find one that suited me. I was coming home and weighing out what I liked, what I didn't like, etc. Who was nice to me, who gave me weird looks, what songs did they sing, how many pamphlets did I get, etc. I was really concerned about what I was going to get out of it all. I wanted and needed to be somewhere that gave me something to look forward to, moral and emotional support. I wanted to walk out of that building feeling lifted up. We've all been there.
But then, someone said to me: Maybe you should stop worrying so much about what you're going to get and think about what you can give.
Since I heeded that advice, my life has not been the same. I am so thankful that I can worship at Axiom Church and leave feeling fulfilled - I can listen and absorb the messages each week, fellowhip with others, laugh and cut up with the kids. But I wholly believe that that feeling of being fulfilled is because my focus is not on what all I can get, but what I have been graciously given and in return can share with others.
That feeling still creeps and crawls in every now and again - "what about me?" But, I just have to kick it to the side and remind myself that it's not about me. It never was and it never will be. All the Glory to God.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Disturbing the Peace
Last night a group from Axiom church, including my family, went for a walk in our neighborhood. On the way there, we saw people lounging and grilling in their driveways and in the park area - children riding bikes, motorized toys, skateboards - three little girls practically ran us over twice on the sidewalk! There were other people practicing their best fishing pole cast... In this particular section of our neighborhood - it was downright rowdy! They were all having a great time but honestly, I was on guard for the next screeching foot-powered Razor!
Why were we there? To say Thank You.
When Axiom sponsored the Backyard Bible Club VBS last week (with the help of an incredible group of teens and adults from Georgia), they set up in our neighborhood's common area. We had called the HOA but no return call from them so we went ahead with the plans. And wouldn't you know, someone didn't like the children learning about God right there in the open! So, they came over, with some kind of HOA "authority" and told everyone they had to leave.
Why did they have to leave? No permission? Well, that's what they said at first. But then, we found out last night, that this person of "authority" said that we were "disturbing the peace." Eh..Come again?? See first paragraph...
Last night, in the middle of total chaos, we were able to say Thank you, make some introductions, invitations, and share the Lord with the couple and their children who blessed our VBS by letting us use their yard instead. They have three children and were very adamant that nobody was going to take away their kids' learning and fun (yep, they saw it not only as learning about God, but FUN!) The mother said her son came home in tears saying that they got "kicked out." She wouldn't stand for that. She stood for God.
So, if that person of "authority" - the one who accused us of disturbing the peace could read this, I would simple say this:
We're showing the way to peace. And it's a sweet ride. All Aboard!
Why were we there? To say Thank You.
When Axiom sponsored the Backyard Bible Club VBS last week (with the help of an incredible group of teens and adults from Georgia), they set up in our neighborhood's common area. We had called the HOA but no return call from them so we went ahead with the plans. And wouldn't you know, someone didn't like the children learning about God right there in the open! So, they came over, with some kind of HOA "authority" and told everyone they had to leave.
Why did they have to leave? No permission? Well, that's what they said at first. But then, we found out last night, that this person of "authority" said that we were "disturbing the peace." Eh..Come again?? See first paragraph...
Last night, in the middle of total chaos, we were able to say Thank you, make some introductions, invitations, and share the Lord with the couple and their children who blessed our VBS by letting us use their yard instead. They have three children and were very adamant that nobody was going to take away their kids' learning and fun (yep, they saw it not only as learning about God, but FUN!) The mother said her son came home in tears saying that they got "kicked out." She wouldn't stand for that. She stood for God.
So, if that person of "authority" - the one who accused us of disturbing the peace could read this, I would simple say this:
We're showing the way to peace. And it's a sweet ride. All Aboard!
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Just when you think you can't possibly go any longer...
...you find yourself surrounded by others so inspiring that without even realzing it, your energy level bursts into overdrive! Our church family - and you all are really our family - is incredible on a level that is beyond expectations.
I have been feeling beyond exhausted, internally exhausted from the move, meds, work, etc., seeking sleep and rest in any corner at any time I can find it. But somehow working at church last night was relaxing, rejuvenating, and exhilerating.
It's abso-tively a God thing.
I have been feeling beyond exhausted, internally exhausted from the move, meds, work, etc., seeking sleep and rest in any corner at any time I can find it. But somehow working at church last night was relaxing, rejuvenating, and exhilerating.
It's abso-tively a God thing.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Aftershocks
Physcially moving this past weekend was the smoothest transition I have experienced. Pastor Ray and his whole family came (he even drove the big scary Uhaul truck so I wouldn't have to...) along with don't-know-when-he-ever-stops-to-take-a-break-Jared and Dave's aunt and uncle, Danny and Wendy (our fave relatives.) Even with all the stress of the riduculous landlord, it was unbelievably awesome. Wendy said "don't worry, we're here with you guys to the end" and they were! Blessings came in the size of these people.
At one point there were three pick-ups, two vans, two SUVs, one Uhaul, one car, and one panel truck sitting in our small cul de sac. I bet even the neigbors were impressed (and hopefully not too annoyed...)
Now, the aftershocks: Can't find shoes, clothes, soap, where to put the dishes, groceries, putting together the beds, desks, etc.
No big complaints though. We love our new home and thank God for providing this home and our beloved friends and family. We love all of you and thank you for everything. One big grill-out coming soon!
At one point there were three pick-ups, two vans, two SUVs, one Uhaul, one car, and one panel truck sitting in our small cul de sac. I bet even the neigbors were impressed (and hopefully not too annoyed...)
Now, the aftershocks: Can't find shoes, clothes, soap, where to put the dishes, groceries, putting together the beds, desks, etc.
No big complaints though. We love our new home and thank God for providing this home and our beloved friends and family. We love all of you and thank you for everything. One big grill-out coming soon!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
The Proudest Moment
Those who know us know that we’re proud parents and quick to brag, even as one of the kids gives us a “I can’t believe you just said that” look. But the proudest moments aren’t always about the winning, the prizes.
Erin had a great weekend – she accomplished so much with her new horse that it was overwhelming.
But, the proudest moment for me was after the shows were over. There was an incident in the show ring where another rider/horse accidentally cut in front of Erin. The other horse then kicked Erin’s horse causing her to rear resulting in Erin being thrown. Thankfully, Erin knew what to do and she landed safely on her feet. She got back on and then finished the class with a 3rd place ribbon. The other girl was crying, another girl started crying, but they all finished the class.
After the class was over, Erin was able to push past the anger and went to the other girl and hugged her, told her that she was fine, the horse was fine, that everyone was fine and that’s what was most important. I stood back and watched our lovely young lady handle a situation with such maturity that I was awestruck.
That was my proudest moment.
Erin had a great weekend – she accomplished so much with her new horse that it was overwhelming.
But, the proudest moment for me was after the shows were over. There was an incident in the show ring where another rider/horse accidentally cut in front of Erin. The other horse then kicked Erin’s horse causing her to rear resulting in Erin being thrown. Thankfully, Erin knew what to do and she landed safely on her feet. She got back on and then finished the class with a 3rd place ribbon. The other girl was crying, another girl started crying, but they all finished the class.
After the class was over, Erin was able to push past the anger and went to the other girl and hugged her, told her that she was fine, the horse was fine, that everyone was fine and that’s what was most important. I stood back and watched our lovely young lady handle a situation with such maturity that I was awestruck.
That was my proudest moment.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
On your mark - Get Set - GO!
Wow, what a week we are having. It started with me making a list on Monday morning and wondering how in the world we were going to be able to fit it all in. Dave has extra evening activities. I have evening things. Erin has meetings, work, banquet, horse show, babysitting. Andrew had job orientation, work. And only one vehicle! I need to get my car to the shop but I have yet to figure out when I can do that. Maybe tonight will be the night... Maybe, maybe not.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Communication
Dave and I bent under pressure and have both created Facebook pages. Actually, we were hearing about events after they happened and the response has been...oh, it was on Facebook... There are so many means of communication but honestly, don't you think the best is still done with a smile you can really see and a hug you can really feel? But, mass communication is the wave so we're riding it too.
Funny thing happened today is that I was reading the comics and one of my faves, Mutts, had a picture of a goldfish in a bowl looking one way with a puzzled look and then looking the other way in the next caption - both times to an empty room. In the third frame he said "I need to get on Facebook."
Ain't it the truth.
Funny thing happened today is that I was reading the comics and one of my faves, Mutts, had a picture of a goldfish in a bowl looking one way with a puzzled look and then looking the other way in the next caption - both times to an empty room. In the third frame he said "I need to get on Facebook."
Ain't it the truth.
Monday, May 11, 2009
"Zed, we have a bug."
No, not an alien cockroach - it's the "Craig's List" bug!
Dave put an item for sale on Craig's List Saturday and within 5 minutes he had a buyer and then several other callers shortly thereafter. Someone came to get it on Sunday right after church.
Now the search is on for other items in our house that we don't need. We might just be sitting on the floor to watch television if this gets too serious.
(btw, I'm marking all of the boxes that contain my old things with Dave's name instead, just in case...)
Dave put an item for sale on Craig's List Saturday and within 5 minutes he had a buyer and then several other callers shortly thereafter. Someone came to get it on Sunday right after church.
Now the search is on for other items in our house that we don't need. We might just be sitting on the floor to watch television if this gets too serious.
(btw, I'm marking all of the boxes that contain my old things with Dave's name instead, just in case...)
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Stubborn, you bet!
It's no secret, at least in my household, that I can be stubborn. My dad even used to call me "bullheaded" when I was a kid. I would prefer to think of it as determined - the word stubborn just gives brings an ugly image.
Lately I have been on a roller coaster/merry-go-round with so many changes going on but I think I am finally getting a grip on some of it - well, I am making it through it. I am DETERMINED to make it the rest of the way through like a racing champ - soaring through the finish line banner with arms in the air!
But if you think about any race you have seen, the winner is soaking wet. They didn't get there by just skipping and humming. It took perseverance and lots of perspiration. And people aren't always encouraging. You have many who during your "race" are offering you a drink and yelling GO GO GO!! but you know there are some who would probably pull back the cup just as you reach for it. (Full of metaphors today...you can thank Erin and her teacher.)
My diabetic doctor's office called last week to give me the results of my first (let me emphasize FIRST) screening since being diagnosed. The asst says that my AC1 is 8. I wanted to hoop and holler! I went from 13 to 8 in two months which is from the top of the chart where you are in danger of losing organs to right above normal! You know what she said? "We'd like for it be lower." Awww, that's like dropping the cup of water just as I reach for it!
Not going to get me down though. All she did was set up the scene for me to work even harder. I am DETERMINED to be a 6 by the next visit which is in 3 weeks. I have begun running and doing even more exercises. I'm up to half a mile steady running now! Doesn't seem all that impressive putting it in writing but when I am running, a half-mile feels incredible! And, I did find better fitting clothes so that I spare the neighbors of any unnecessary streaking. =)
Lately I have been on a roller coaster/merry-go-round with so many changes going on but I think I am finally getting a grip on some of it - well, I am making it through it. I am DETERMINED to make it the rest of the way through like a racing champ - soaring through the finish line banner with arms in the air!
But if you think about any race you have seen, the winner is soaking wet. They didn't get there by just skipping and humming. It took perseverance and lots of perspiration. And people aren't always encouraging. You have many who during your "race" are offering you a drink and yelling GO GO GO!! but you know there are some who would probably pull back the cup just as you reach for it. (Full of metaphors today...you can thank Erin and her teacher.)
My diabetic doctor's office called last week to give me the results of my first (let me emphasize FIRST) screening since being diagnosed. The asst says that my AC1 is 8. I wanted to hoop and holler! I went from 13 to 8 in two months which is from the top of the chart where you are in danger of losing organs to right above normal! You know what she said? "We'd like for it be lower." Awww, that's like dropping the cup of water just as I reach for it!
Not going to get me down though. All she did was set up the scene for me to work even harder. I am DETERMINED to be a 6 by the next visit which is in 3 weeks. I have begun running and doing even more exercises. I'm up to half a mile steady running now! Doesn't seem all that impressive putting it in writing but when I am running, a half-mile feels incredible! And, I did find better fitting clothes so that I spare the neighbors of any unnecessary streaking. =)
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
"Look at that, Look at that"
Dave and I watched a country/western show this weekend and one of the songs reviewed was “The Streak” by Ray Stevens. What a blast from the past! One of the funniest songs I can remember.
Speaking of streaking…
Part of my exercise routine is walking my dog and he loves it, of course. If he hears anyone in the house say the word “Go,” he is at your feet wagging and ready to go wherever you are going. And he'll go just as fast as you let him.
Last evening we were on our walk down the road when a rabbit popped up in the grass. Copper took that as a sign to go even faster which took me off-guard and made me have to go even faster. He ran, pulling me so hard and fast that all I could do was follow – laughing hysterically and calling out Whoa!. Then…
Well, I am glad we were in a section of the road where nobody else could see us because they would have seen more than expected! I need a better belt =)
Speaking of streaking…
Part of my exercise routine is walking my dog and he loves it, of course. If he hears anyone in the house say the word “Go,” he is at your feet wagging and ready to go wherever you are going. And he'll go just as fast as you let him.
Last evening we were on our walk down the road when a rabbit popped up in the grass. Copper took that as a sign to go even faster which took me off-guard and made me have to go even faster. He ran, pulling me so hard and fast that all I could do was follow – laughing hysterically and calling out Whoa!. Then…
Well, I am glad we were in a section of the road where nobody else could see us because they would have seen more than expected! I need a better belt =)
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Power of Prayer
Watch out! We have been having a children's church time but that's about to evolve.
John and I are working this to a whole new level of incredible - we're going for a whole new Axiom Children's Worship Service.
It's going to be so grand that the kids won't want to leave and the adults will want to get in.
Please pray with us as we begin this endeavor. It's going to be fantastic.
John and I are working this to a whole new level of incredible - we're going for a whole new Axiom Children's Worship Service.
It's going to be so grand that the kids won't want to leave and the adults will want to get in.
Please pray with us as we begin this endeavor. It's going to be fantastic.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Thankful
I have so much on my mind today. If I tried to write it out long form, there would probably be about 15 paragraphs. So here's my best attempt at an abridged version: (Warning - It was pounded in my head to never generalize when I write so continue with caution.)
1. The Broken Road: Dave and I asked Mr. Chris Wall to sing this at our wedding because it really symbolized our journey to Jesus and then to each other. Our journey continues and just keeps getting better - hand in hand.
2. My Husband is just simply awesome. Last night there was some worry in the house, nothing too traumatic, but Dave took the helm and prayed with Erin. Twenty minutes later, the long-awaited phone call came and it was all good. He couldn't love us more.
3. We're proud of our daughter. She knows who she is and what she wants and is willing to do what's necessary. Letting her drive by herself was the hardest thing I have done yet with any of our kids but she is a good driver and I probably shouldn't worry so much.
4. Our boys are all such caring people. They are sympathetic and loving and all have great smiles. (Shhhh...they probably don't want anyone else to know this but it's true.)
5. I am excited about the new Children's Worship at Axiom. Until now it's been a one-step at a time thing for me but John is now in the mix and has given me new energy and enthusiasm. Bring on the world! We're seeking prayer so please pray for us as we begin.
6. The message at church this week was really thought-provoking. It was focused on the men but now the "drip, drip, drip" has become one of our newest cliches' and a fun way to express ourselves.
7. I am thankful for my job. It's not glamorous but I like it and it's something I can do well plus I have a manager who shows appreciation. I work with a great team and most of them love to talk about the Lord and all His goodness. We have unintentionally formed a prayer team. When someone is struggling, there is someone else around who can give them comfort with a prayer. It's cool knowing that they know I am available. They are also a lot of fun.
8. I saw my writing mentor from college last week and she was very encouraging, wanting to know how publishing was coming. She gave me some needed advice and a better attitude. She is just too cool - Dr. Linda Walvoord. Her children's books are incredible.
There's so much more but too much for words right now. I am so thankful.
1. The Broken Road: Dave and I asked Mr. Chris Wall to sing this at our wedding because it really symbolized our journey to Jesus and then to each other. Our journey continues and just keeps getting better - hand in hand.
2. My Husband is just simply awesome. Last night there was some worry in the house, nothing too traumatic, but Dave took the helm and prayed with Erin. Twenty minutes later, the long-awaited phone call came and it was all good. He couldn't love us more.
3. We're proud of our daughter. She knows who she is and what she wants and is willing to do what's necessary. Letting her drive by herself was the hardest thing I have done yet with any of our kids but she is a good driver and I probably shouldn't worry so much.
4. Our boys are all such caring people. They are sympathetic and loving and all have great smiles. (Shhhh...they probably don't want anyone else to know this but it's true.)
5. I am excited about the new Children's Worship at Axiom. Until now it's been a one-step at a time thing for me but John is now in the mix and has given me new energy and enthusiasm. Bring on the world! We're seeking prayer so please pray for us as we begin.
6. The message at church this week was really thought-provoking. It was focused on the men but now the "drip, drip, drip" has become one of our newest cliches' and a fun way to express ourselves.
7. I am thankful for my job. It's not glamorous but I like it and it's something I can do well plus I have a manager who shows appreciation. I work with a great team and most of them love to talk about the Lord and all His goodness. We have unintentionally formed a prayer team. When someone is struggling, there is someone else around who can give them comfort with a prayer. It's cool knowing that they know I am available. They are also a lot of fun.
8. I saw my writing mentor from college last week and she was very encouraging, wanting to know how publishing was coming. She gave me some needed advice and a better attitude. She is just too cool - Dr. Linda Walvoord. Her children's books are incredible.
There's so much more but too much for words right now. I am so thankful.
Monday, April 27, 2009
No better way to end it
This weekend was a roller coaster ride for my family but I can't think of a better way for it to have to come to a close than it did.
Our not-so-Small Group decided to meet at the park and grill some burgers and hotdogs. The guys got to show off their grill-skills and the gals made sure everything was ready to serve. The kids got to enjoy some serious running time at the playground and even managed to stay out of the water-soaked sand area (that was gross...) And, I did notice a few people trying to inconspicuously listen to our discussions so I hope they were able to take home with them a few questions which will require them to seek answers.
The weather was great.
The food was great.
But the company was the best!
Our not-so-Small Group decided to meet at the park and grill some burgers and hotdogs. The guys got to show off their grill-skills and the gals made sure everything was ready to serve. The kids got to enjoy some serious running time at the playground and even managed to stay out of the water-soaked sand area (that was gross...) And, I did notice a few people trying to inconspicuously listen to our discussions so I hope they were able to take home with them a few questions which will require them to seek answers.
The weather was great.
The food was great.
But the company was the best!
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Things that make you smile
There are certain things that just make you smile. One of those things for me – Ducks.
I love ducks! Especially mallard ducks. When I was a kid, our ducks would wake me up in the morning – they all came up to the house and waited outside the gate for my papa to come out and feed them. He would go out and they would follow him all the way to corncrib, waddling and quacking like crazy the whole way. It was fantastic. So, now when I see ducks, I can’t help but just smile at their pretty little faces.
We have a cat, Riley, that tries this same wake-up technique. He tries to make me get up to feed him earlier than I have to by meowing continuously at the door or the foot of the bed. I eventually get up but intentionally give him the old fake-out by acting like I am going to the laundry room to feed him but then turn the other way and fix my coffee instead and then stare at him with a "uh-huh, who's the boss?" look. There’s some kind of strange satisfaction in this. You would think I just ran over his tail by the way he hollers at me!
But the most annoying thing of all is that when I do check his food bowl, there is still food in it from last night! Why in the world was he hollering for food when he has food? Yeah, I know why: It’s that whole conspiracy thing. Sorry Riley – I simply like the dog more.
I love ducks! Especially mallard ducks. When I was a kid, our ducks would wake me up in the morning – they all came up to the house and waited outside the gate for my papa to come out and feed them. He would go out and they would follow him all the way to corncrib, waddling and quacking like crazy the whole way. It was fantastic. So, now when I see ducks, I can’t help but just smile at their pretty little faces.
We have a cat, Riley, that tries this same wake-up technique. He tries to make me get up to feed him earlier than I have to by meowing continuously at the door or the foot of the bed. I eventually get up but intentionally give him the old fake-out by acting like I am going to the laundry room to feed him but then turn the other way and fix my coffee instead and then stare at him with a "uh-huh, who's the boss?" look. There’s some kind of strange satisfaction in this. You would think I just ran over his tail by the way he hollers at me!
But the most annoying thing of all is that when I do check his food bowl, there is still food in it from last night! Why in the world was he hollering for food when he has food? Yeah, I know why: It’s that whole conspiracy thing. Sorry Riley – I simply like the dog more.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Not afraid to show it
Working with the children is simply a delight. Sometimes I have the "I'm not ready for this" feeling on Sunday morning but it always works out of me 30 seconds into classtime.
This week we had three children who were going to be baptized after service. They were so ants-in-the-pants excited! We talked about when Jesus was baptized, what it means to be baptized. If anyone thinks that kids this age just aren't old enough to get-it, understand who Jesus is, they need to come and sit it with our class. They have a better grip on Jesus and His glory than I think most adults do. Adults have to reason too much.
These kids know it, feel it, and really live it. And they are definitely not afraid to show it. If I ask a question, there is normally more than one who is eager to share his/her answer. Some have already been out in crowds inviting others to church - handing out our new Axiom cards.
It's just so terrific and inspiring.
This week we had three children who were going to be baptized after service. They were so ants-in-the-pants excited! We talked about when Jesus was baptized, what it means to be baptized. If anyone thinks that kids this age just aren't old enough to get-it, understand who Jesus is, they need to come and sit it with our class. They have a better grip on Jesus and His glory than I think most adults do. Adults have to reason too much.
These kids know it, feel it, and really live it. And they are definitely not afraid to show it. If I ask a question, there is normally more than one who is eager to share his/her answer. Some have already been out in crowds inviting others to church - handing out our new Axiom cards.
It's just so terrific and inspiring.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Dare to be a Daniel
You know how a song gets stuck in your head? You don't even realize that you're singing it over and over again until you start singing it outloud.
One of the children's worship songs that the kids want to sing every week, is "Dare to be a Daniel." Which is, of course, referring to Daniel from the Old Testament who continued to pray even though he was ordered not to. Like most kids' songs, it has a catchy melody so it sticks right there in the front. I have been singing that in my head since yesterday morning.
This morning though, I really thought about the words. The chorus goes like this:
"Dare to be a Daniel
Dare to stand alone
Dare to have a purpose firm
Dare to make it known."
Isn't this one of the most challenging parts of life? Standing firm for what you believe? We all know that it's especially difficult when you are young. There are those who are outright trying to convince others to do something that they normally wouldn't do - and don't forget those who may appear more gentle but who are actually even more deceiving and cunning.
But it can be even more challenging as an adult. We have to "reason" things through, weigh everything out. The more you think about something, the more the black n white becomes gray and then you question yourself. Now, this is not saying that an open mind is a bad thing. We are human so reasoning is what we do. And we have to be open to change but its a sticky tricky dead-end path when you try to do this alone.
The only definite way to know exactly how to proceed is to take it to God. If you truly want to know - he'll provide the answer. And as we all know, it may not be the answer we are seeking - but we have to be obedient.
Dare to be a Daniel.
One of the children's worship songs that the kids want to sing every week, is "Dare to be a Daniel." Which is, of course, referring to Daniel from the Old Testament who continued to pray even though he was ordered not to. Like most kids' songs, it has a catchy melody so it sticks right there in the front. I have been singing that in my head since yesterday morning.
This morning though, I really thought about the words. The chorus goes like this:
"Dare to be a Daniel
Dare to stand alone
Dare to have a purpose firm
Dare to make it known."
Isn't this one of the most challenging parts of life? Standing firm for what you believe? We all know that it's especially difficult when you are young. There are those who are outright trying to convince others to do something that they normally wouldn't do - and don't forget those who may appear more gentle but who are actually even more deceiving and cunning.
But it can be even more challenging as an adult. We have to "reason" things through, weigh everything out. The more you think about something, the more the black n white becomes gray and then you question yourself. Now, this is not saying that an open mind is a bad thing. We are human so reasoning is what we do. And we have to be open to change but its a sticky tricky dead-end path when you try to do this alone.
The only definite way to know exactly how to proceed is to take it to God. If you truly want to know - he'll provide the answer. And as we all know, it may not be the answer we are seeking - but we have to be obedient.
Dare to be a Daniel.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Blown Away!
Today I was simply blown away! The kids were absolutely spectacular during our presentation of Malchus and the arrest of Jesus. And Danny, Jared, Jeremy - I cannot say enough about your willingness to serve after you had been volunteered... Just kidding guys, you were all just fantastic. John, your voice held it all together seamlessly - led the way for the others to perform. You are all simply outstanding, terrific, fabulous!
Thank you to everyone who helped guide, dress-up the cast - those who helped who to hold back the "mob" until just the right moment. Watch for the simulcast coming soon to U-tube!
Blown away!
In children's church today the kids were all excited. They really laughed a lot when we talked about exchanging punishments with each other and I think ultimately it did drive home how Jesus took our punishment. We made some Empty Tomb cookies and enjoyed a movie. It was just a "WOW'SER" day!
Thank you to everyone serving and for your support.
In the words of Buzz Lightyear - TO INFINITY AND BEYOND!
Thank you to everyone who helped guide, dress-up the cast - those who helped who to hold back the "mob" until just the right moment. Watch for the simulcast coming soon to U-tube!
Blown away!
In children's church today the kids were all excited. They really laughed a lot when we talked about exchanging punishments with each other and I think ultimately it did drive home how Jesus took our punishment. We made some Empty Tomb cookies and enjoyed a movie. It was just a "WOW'SER" day!
Thank you to everyone serving and for your support.
In the words of Buzz Lightyear - TO INFINITY AND BEYOND!
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
The NeuterScooter is coming to town!
There's a flyer up in the breakroom and if any headline could catch your eye - it's this one. The NeuterScooter - great name.
It is really a good cause though. There is a mobile veterinarian who neuters cats, even feral cats, for a small fee.
Just had to share the headline though.
It is really a good cause though. There is a mobile veterinarian who neuters cats, even feral cats, for a small fee.
Just had to share the headline though.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Too much bungee
Dave and I visited with some dear friends last evening, Mike and Bev. These two are at the top of our list of people we admire most. Despite a generation gap, we used to hang out together frequently - have Sunday lunch together - but life has gotten in the way. Mike and Bev brought Dave and me to Center Pointe many moons ago.
We hadn't seen them since our wedding day so the catching-up-as-quick-as-possible was very funny. We went from hugging and how are you's to food, hurricanes, and daring stunts such as indoor skydiving and bungee jumping. We all shared a headshake about the hopes that if we did go bungee jumping that we wouldn't have "too much bungee."
Today is their 30th wedding anniversary. Our applause, love, and admiration go out to them today for being such an inspiration to us and really just for being such wonderful friends.
We hadn't seen them since our wedding day so the catching-up-as-quick-as-possible was very funny. We went from hugging and how are you's to food, hurricanes, and daring stunts such as indoor skydiving and bungee jumping. We all shared a headshake about the hopes that if we did go bungee jumping that we wouldn't have "too much bungee."
Today is their 30th wedding anniversary. Our applause, love, and admiration go out to them today for being such an inspiration to us and really just for being such wonderful friends.
Monday, April 6, 2009
The kids say the greatest things
During classtime each Sunday morning I try hard to impress on the children the importance of Jesus. This can be difficult in a world full of commercialism and entertainment. Coloring pages and yarn don't always work to keep the attention span and those things don't always get the message across. (These are good for fillers though and we have them available before classtime.)
So, we improvise by entertaining with videos about Jesus and different activities/games. Always looking for something unique or different to get their attention. It can be a challenge - but it is so fulfilling when the message does get across. I suspect this is the same for Pastor Ray when giving his message to everyone. He could just stand there and read scripture like the "old" days (color the picture and paste it on another piece of paper week after week) but that's not in his plan. He brings a momentum with his message that inspires and drives home the meaning. Even when I can only listen to his message through ITunes, his emotions and enthusiasm ring through loud and clear. He gets us excited. We try to do the same with the children. (No, Jared, we don't want this on ITunes...)
It was brought to my attention by someone observing this week that they noticed one child in particular really has a grip on Jesus and the Bible. This young fellow loves to read and loves to answer questions about Jesus and the Bible and he is usually right-on the money. Most of the kids are quick to share and participate, it's just that this fellow just seems to express it well for his age. I love that he does share and only hope that when he shares his love of Jesus with other children that they feel his excitement about Jesus and want in on it too. He really knows his stuff. And, he has a great sense of humor.
I wonder if we went to a regular public school classroom and asked how many kids know who the Easter bunny is - how many would raise their hands and jump up and down with excitment? What if we asked the same question about Jesus? Would we see the same excitement and facial expressions? WE SHOULD! But I doubt we would.
Bunnies and chicks are great things and completely symbolic of the coming Spring season (along with the dreaded "achooo's") but I really want children to understand that Easter is about Jesus dying for our sins. That is the greatest. The best. The only real Easter treat.
The last couple of weeks we talked about the Last Supper and Passover and then watched a short video to drive it home. It was awesome to sit with them and share this magnificent event. One child spoke up during the movie that when Judas left the room, only 11 Apostles were left. My only thought was "Yes!" It's so cool when "it" works.
So, we improvise by entertaining with videos about Jesus and different activities/games. Always looking for something unique or different to get their attention. It can be a challenge - but it is so fulfilling when the message does get across. I suspect this is the same for Pastor Ray when giving his message to everyone. He could just stand there and read scripture like the "old" days (color the picture and paste it on another piece of paper week after week) but that's not in his plan. He brings a momentum with his message that inspires and drives home the meaning. Even when I can only listen to his message through ITunes, his emotions and enthusiasm ring through loud and clear. He gets us excited. We try to do the same with the children. (No, Jared, we don't want this on ITunes...)
It was brought to my attention by someone observing this week that they noticed one child in particular really has a grip on Jesus and the Bible. This young fellow loves to read and loves to answer questions about Jesus and the Bible and he is usually right-on the money. Most of the kids are quick to share and participate, it's just that this fellow just seems to express it well for his age. I love that he does share and only hope that when he shares his love of Jesus with other children that they feel his excitement about Jesus and want in on it too. He really knows his stuff. And, he has a great sense of humor.
I wonder if we went to a regular public school classroom and asked how many kids know who the Easter bunny is - how many would raise their hands and jump up and down with excitment? What if we asked the same question about Jesus? Would we see the same excitement and facial expressions? WE SHOULD! But I doubt we would.
Bunnies and chicks are great things and completely symbolic of the coming Spring season (along with the dreaded "achooo's") but I really want children to understand that Easter is about Jesus dying for our sins. That is the greatest. The best. The only real Easter treat.
The last couple of weeks we talked about the Last Supper and Passover and then watched a short video to drive it home. It was awesome to sit with them and share this magnificent event. One child spoke up during the movie that when Judas left the room, only 11 Apostles were left. My only thought was "Yes!" It's so cool when "it" works.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Who? Who? who-whoooo?
The mailman probably had a heart attack.
Our mailbox lid would never stay shut and often would have leaves or something in it. Imagine the looks on our faces when Dave pulled the leaves out of the back and discovered the neighborhood visitor! He didn't wake up until I flashed the camera at him. Looks a little annoyed doesn't he?
Monday, March 30, 2009
Does it go like this? or this?
The good news is that Dave is in his new office as of this morning and just right down the street from where I work. It is really amazing that since we have been together, most of the time our work places have been within easy distances of each other so that we can ride together and occassionally have lunch together. It's really great to be able to do that. It gives us more time to talk, etc. Plus, I like having a chauffeur - gives me the chance for that little cat-nap on the way home.
If you have ever put together a piece of office furniture - one of those that comes in a box with 40 pages of diagrams and instructions and 1,000,000 pieces - you have my respect and admiration.
We spent some time Saturday morning hosting the movers and beginning the task of putting some new furniture together. Last night we went back to his office to finish. Good intentions - not enough hours! We spent over 3 hours working on the credenza just last night and didn't get to 100%. By 9:00 p.m. I had had enough of desk drawers, numbered pieces, and pins and poles.
If you have ever put together a piece of office furniture - one of those that comes in a box with 40 pages of diagrams and instructions and 1,000,000 pieces - you have my respect and admiration.
We spent some time Saturday morning hosting the movers and beginning the task of putting some new furniture together. Last night we went back to his office to finish. Good intentions - not enough hours! We spent over 3 hours working on the credenza just last night and didn't get to 100%. By 9:00 p.m. I had had enough of desk drawers, numbered pieces, and pins and poles.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Cheer Up Charlie
We were watching the original Willie Wonka this evening and it was to the part where the mother is singing the sad song "Cheer Up Charlie" when I noticed Dusty was singng along and it sounded like he was crying and he was! The song made him so sad that he had tears swelling in his eyes. It was one of those moments that just makes you say awwww.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Help! My Wii Won't Work!
My Wii is not feeling well =(
The disc reader is broken apparently so I have to send it to Nintendo to get it repaired. Good news is that it will be 100% guaranteed for one year - the bad news is that it costs $75.00 and all the virtual console games that we have bought will be lost as will the progress on all the other games. There is a way to download them on to an sd card but that means I have to go buy another one of those!
What will my Wii Fit trainer say now? I haven't exercised for two weeks. Oh wait, she'll never know...
The disc reader is broken apparently so I have to send it to Nintendo to get it repaired. Good news is that it will be 100% guaranteed for one year - the bad news is that it costs $75.00 and all the virtual console games that we have bought will be lost as will the progress on all the other games. There is a way to download them on to an sd card but that means I have to go buy another one of those!
What will my Wii Fit trainer say now? I haven't exercised for two weeks. Oh wait, she'll never know...
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Crayons while you wait?
Dave, Erin, and I went out to eat last night at a local steak restaurant. When we were being seated, the host (a guy) asked if we needed a kid's menu! I know Erin may look young but to be 16 and mistaken for a 10-year old? Hilarious!
When she was ordering, I had to chime in and let her know that there was a "kid's sirloin" on the menu, you know, just in case she was interested. =) When our dinner arrived, I almost reached over and started cutting up her food for her.
We all got a big laugh out of the whole thing, even Erin. We do have a great time together. I think we even have fun during trips to the dentist!
When she was ordering, I had to chime in and let her know that there was a "kid's sirloin" on the menu, you know, just in case she was interested. =) When our dinner arrived, I almost reached over and started cutting up her food for her.
We all got a big laugh out of the whole thing, even Erin. We do have a great time together. I think we even have fun during trips to the dentist!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
When you're ready, I'll be here
I have been struggling with what to tell my son. He's angry and confused and frustrated, and so on and so on... He is a great person who has lost sight - he's lost his way.
He won't answer my calls and I don't know where he is. So, I thought I would text him from my daughter's phone and just simply say "When you're ready, I'll be here."
This phrase got me to thinking -- isn't this what God is always telling us?
He's there, He's waiting. We just have to go to Him.
He won't answer my calls and I don't know where he is. So, I thought I would text him from my daughter's phone and just simply say "When you're ready, I'll be here."
This phrase got me to thinking -- isn't this what God is always telling us?
He's there, He's waiting. We just have to go to Him.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Didn't mean it that way...
Thick-skinned. I try to be most of the time but I admit that I have had moments of weakness lately - been more sensitive. Have you ever said something and at the moment you said it you realized that it just came out all wrong? We all have right? I am guilty, guilty, guilty.
BUT! I have been trying harder to catch myself lately because of things that have been said to me from co-workers, friends, family...things that aren't really meant to hurt my feelings. Phrases that aren't meant to be insulting and may be said out of concern, but have a different affect than intended. For example:
"You look tired" - Usually said out of concern but let's face it, being told you look tired is not flattering, especially when you are tired!!
"You're so skinny" - Skinny is not a compliment!! I was very thin as a young adult and I hated being told that. Lately I have lost a few pounds and feel much more comfortable and healthier but if I hear one more person at work tell me that I am so "skinny," I think I will cry. On the positive side, one person told me they were concerned because they noticed that I had become "more slender" and wanted to make sure I wasn't under too much stress while at work. And another told me that they had noticed that I was taking great care of myself lately and commended me. Well done! Those two got a big smile and a thank you.
It's not that anyone really meant to say something hurtful, but when you are tired, just a friendly smile and greeting and sometimes a hug would do. And for me, losing weight wasn't something I tried to do and was actually a serious health concern - so someone saying "you're so skinny" just made me feel worse. Let me tell you, the "slender" comment really worked to boost my spirits. Mostly because it was said to me out of concern and was not said in a demeaning way.
So, I am guarding my words more carefully - intentionally. Being more grateful, more complimentary and more compassionate. I may not know what struggles someone is going through and I certainly don't want to add to it.
On a side note, three people in our family's small world of acquaintances have committed suicide within the past two months. We don't know what caused them to feel so desparate but maybe a kind word could have made a difference.
BUT! I have been trying harder to catch myself lately because of things that have been said to me from co-workers, friends, family...things that aren't really meant to hurt my feelings. Phrases that aren't meant to be insulting and may be said out of concern, but have a different affect than intended. For example:
"You look tired" - Usually said out of concern but let's face it, being told you look tired is not flattering, especially when you are tired!!
"You're so skinny" - Skinny is not a compliment!! I was very thin as a young adult and I hated being told that. Lately I have lost a few pounds and feel much more comfortable and healthier but if I hear one more person at work tell me that I am so "skinny," I think I will cry. On the positive side, one person told me they were concerned because they noticed that I had become "more slender" and wanted to make sure I wasn't under too much stress while at work. And another told me that they had noticed that I was taking great care of myself lately and commended me. Well done! Those two got a big smile and a thank you.
It's not that anyone really meant to say something hurtful, but when you are tired, just a friendly smile and greeting and sometimes a hug would do. And for me, losing weight wasn't something I tried to do and was actually a serious health concern - so someone saying "you're so skinny" just made me feel worse. Let me tell you, the "slender" comment really worked to boost my spirits. Mostly because it was said to me out of concern and was not said in a demeaning way.
So, I am guarding my words more carefully - intentionally. Being more grateful, more complimentary and more compassionate. I may not know what struggles someone is going through and I certainly don't want to add to it.
On a side note, three people in our family's small world of acquaintances have committed suicide within the past two months. We don't know what caused them to feel so desparate but maybe a kind word could have made a difference.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Psalm 127
Psalm 127
1 Unless the LORD builds the house,
its builders labor in vain.
Unless the LORD watches over the city,
the watchmen stand guard in vain.
2 In vain you rise early
and stay up late,
toiling for food to eat—
for he grants sleep to those he loves.
3 Sons are a heritage from the LORD,
children a reward from him.
4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one's youth.
5 Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.
1 Unless the LORD builds the house,
its builders labor in vain.
Unless the LORD watches over the city,
the watchmen stand guard in vain.
2 In vain you rise early
and stay up late,
toiling for food to eat—
for he grants sleep to those he loves.
3 Sons are a heritage from the LORD,
children a reward from him.
4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one's youth.
5 Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Tower of Bagel
This week's class:
* While discussing the Tower of Babel, one of the boys instead called it the Tower of BAGEL!
* When a car backfires, the polite thing to do is say "Pardon me."
* If moving to another country, the most popular item to take with you is a light saber.
* When I forget something - the kids do not!
* A six year old reminded the entire class that everyone is good at something. How cool is that?
Kids are amazing.
* While discussing the Tower of Babel, one of the boys instead called it the Tower of BAGEL!
* When a car backfires, the polite thing to do is say "Pardon me."
* If moving to another country, the most popular item to take with you is a light saber.
* When I forget something - the kids do not!
* A six year old reminded the entire class that everyone is good at something. How cool is that?
Kids are amazing.
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Picture Perfect Weekend
Flowers before the dance. Awwwww...
Proud Poppa
What the cat really thinks about it all.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
All Aboard!
For our summer VBS, we were faced with two good choices: Boomerang Express or Truth Trek. It was difficult to decide!! But, sometimes you just have to go with your gut feeling and that led me to....
The Boomerang Express! We're going on an adventure to the Australian Outback to show children that "no matter where they go or what they do in life-it all comes back to Jesus."
1 John 4:9 -– "God's love was revealed among us in this way: God sent His One and Only Son into the world so that we might live through Him"
All Aboard!
(Thanks Sarah for your input!)
Friday, February 27, 2009
A Roaring Sweet 16
In 1993, March came in like a lion!!
This weekend our little girl turns Sweet 16. She has been counting down the years, months, then the weeks, and now the days.
Out of our six kids, not only is she the only girl but the youngest so, as much as I don't want to admit it, I'm a little sad. But she is continuing to become a wonderful person and we couldn't be more proud, as most everyone already knows =)
She might be disappointed though - she thinks she is getting MY car for a present. Ummmmmm......no.
This weekend our little girl turns Sweet 16. She has been counting down the years, months, then the weeks, and now the days.
Out of our six kids, not only is she the only girl but the youngest so, as much as I don't want to admit it, I'm a little sad. But she is continuing to become a wonderful person and we couldn't be more proud, as most everyone already knows =)
She might be disappointed though - she thinks she is getting MY car for a present. Ummmmmm......no.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
exCUSE me
When you walk into a Sam's club or Costco, they want to see your membership card - why so adamant? I don't know.
Today I entered Costco in Mason (that's Loveland for Christine =)) for the first time and was looking around for the service desk. Right in through the doorway marked "Entrance" there was a counter and I headed towards it. It was a little loud and crowded but I heard this voice exclaiming "ExCUSE me!" so rudely that I had to turn around. There were two ladies, dressed in all the latest styles, staring at me. One then said "I need to see your membership card before you go in" I said to her, "Wow, that was really rude." She said "No I'm not. You have to show your membership card." Hello? Is this their customer service representative?
This is how the rest of it went:
ME: "Well, I'm a new member and I don't have one yet. I was looking for the service desk but now I think I will just cancel my membership." (I walk on toward the counter)
2nd LADY AT THE DOOR follows me to the counter: (speaking rudely, shaking her head at me) "She wasn't rude, we are required to ask."
ME: (amazed that this woman just followed me to tell me I was wrong) "That is my opinion and that was rude."
2nd LADY: "No, she wasn't"
ME: (still looking with amazement) "I really don't care."
To the lady behind the counter: "I'm here to cancel my membership."
2nd LADY: "Well, she wasn't"
ME: (simply stare at her with a look of what part of "I don't care" don't you understand?!)
There was more but just know that we are loyal to Sam's now.
Sam's Club and Wal Mart may have elderly people greeting you, but I have never had any of them speak rudely to me or for goodness sake, chase after me to tell how I was wrong and they were right. Maybe Costco should put elderly people at the door - that way they probably can't chase you down. =)
Today I entered Costco in Mason (that's Loveland for Christine =)) for the first time and was looking around for the service desk. Right in through the doorway marked "Entrance" there was a counter and I headed towards it. It was a little loud and crowded but I heard this voice exclaiming "ExCUSE me!" so rudely that I had to turn around. There were two ladies, dressed in all the latest styles, staring at me. One then said "I need to see your membership card before you go in" I said to her, "Wow, that was really rude." She said "No I'm not. You have to show your membership card." Hello? Is this their customer service representative?
This is how the rest of it went:
ME: "Well, I'm a new member and I don't have one yet. I was looking for the service desk but now I think I will just cancel my membership." (I walk on toward the counter)
2nd LADY AT THE DOOR follows me to the counter: (speaking rudely, shaking her head at me) "She wasn't rude, we are required to ask."
ME: (amazed that this woman just followed me to tell me I was wrong) "That is my opinion and that was rude."
2nd LADY: "No, she wasn't"
ME: (still looking with amazement) "I really don't care."
To the lady behind the counter: "I'm here to cancel my membership."
2nd LADY: "Well, she wasn't"
ME: (simply stare at her with a look of what part of "I don't care" don't you understand?!)
There was more but just know that we are loyal to Sam's now.
Sam's Club and Wal Mart may have elderly people greeting you, but I have never had any of them speak rudely to me or for goodness sake, chase after me to tell how I was wrong and they were right. Maybe Costco should put elderly people at the door - that way they probably can't chase you down. =)
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Attacks where you love
I am preoccupied this morning - I’ve been thinking about my family and how precious they are to me.
Yesterday I was reading an online news article and my heart fell when I read the headline stating a Georgetown family of three was found dead in their home. I first thought it was going to be about a kerosene heater tragedy. I was stunned to read that it was a murder-suicide and then even more stunned to read that it was someone I grew up with and lives less than a mile from my father’s home.
I knew the Planck family from school and being in 4-H and FFA. All three kids and their parents were at the meetings and camp, and we all spent time together at the county fair. Normal family, kids, and circumstances. They were farmers just like us.
The father shot his wife and their 11 year old son and then himself. The article said they were going through a divorce. Okay, that is bad but to push someone to take the life of someone he loves, his own child, and then himself? Well, there really is no guessing-game there, we all know satan attacks where we love.
My thoughts have been - what could have prevented this from happening? We have talked about reaching the lost and how to be more effective in doing so. Was this guy one of the lost looking desperately to be found?
If he had had someone to confide in, someone to question, someone with a shoulder to cry on or someone who was just there to listen, who knows what the outcome would have been. This just shoots home that we need to be more aggressive in reaching out to others.
Yesterday I was reading an online news article and my heart fell when I read the headline stating a Georgetown family of three was found dead in their home. I first thought it was going to be about a kerosene heater tragedy. I was stunned to read that it was a murder-suicide and then even more stunned to read that it was someone I grew up with and lives less than a mile from my father’s home.
I knew the Planck family from school and being in 4-H and FFA. All three kids and their parents were at the meetings and camp, and we all spent time together at the county fair. Normal family, kids, and circumstances. They were farmers just like us.
The father shot his wife and their 11 year old son and then himself. The article said they were going through a divorce. Okay, that is bad but to push someone to take the life of someone he loves, his own child, and then himself? Well, there really is no guessing-game there, we all know satan attacks where we love.
My thoughts have been - what could have prevented this from happening? We have talked about reaching the lost and how to be more effective in doing so. Was this guy one of the lost looking desperately to be found?
If he had had someone to confide in, someone to question, someone with a shoulder to cry on or someone who was just there to listen, who knows what the outcome would have been. This just shoots home that we need to be more aggressive in reaching out to others.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Just when you think nobody notices...
Something happens to remind you that your efforts are not in vain.
I have mentioned that I am part of a new team at work and have been taking time to get to know everyone and have found that most everyone on the team is a Christian and has a church family. This week, taking the time to get to know them made a difference.
Someone came to me this week who needed to talk - she felt she was being attacked spiritually -- in her home, her work, everywhere. She said she came to me because she knew I was a Christian and would understand and maybe give her some peace of mind by listening. I was so happy to be available to listen and share my faith with her. She said she felt better - I know I definitely did!
I have mentioned that I am part of a new team at work and have been taking time to get to know everyone and have found that most everyone on the team is a Christian and has a church family. This week, taking the time to get to know them made a difference.
Someone came to me this week who needed to talk - she felt she was being attacked spiritually -- in her home, her work, everywhere. She said she came to me because she knew I was a Christian and would understand and maybe give her some peace of mind by listening. I was so happy to be available to listen and share my faith with her. She said she felt better - I know I definitely did!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
"I noticed you took a break"
Wow, it's just like a real personal trainer standing there watching you! We purchased a Wii Fit and hooked it all up last night. Erin and I tried it out while Dave laughed at us. Well, we laughed at ourselves too because it was just too funny.
All the stretches and motions you try to do with your so out-of-shape self can really be difficult! Erin was trying to cheat on parts of it--on the push-ups part, she stopped to rest and the game yelled out "HEY!" At the end the "trainer" tells you how you did. For this set, the trainer said "I noticed you took a break." If nothing else, we burnt calories from laughing so hard.
All the stretches and motions you try to do with your so out-of-shape self can really be difficult! Erin was trying to cheat on parts of it--on the push-ups part, she stopped to rest and the game yelled out "HEY!" At the end the "trainer" tells you how you did. For this set, the trainer said "I noticed you took a break." If nothing else, we burnt calories from laughing so hard.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
New club, new year - new friends!
We had our first 4-H meeting last night and we had a great time. Erin is in a new club this year, the Young Riders. Aside from one mother/daughter, I knew no one at the meeting personally. I had seen most of them at shows or the fair but had never spoke to them on a personal level. And last night I didn't get to meet everyone but it was such a different atmosphere from the last club. The kids are kids but it was the parents who made the difference.
I like talking to people (most of the time...) but in the last club, the parents were all in sort of a "click" so in order to be part of that, you almost had to infiltrate the outer layer by some spectacular feat. Apparently, I didn't have enough spectacular-rificness to offer. At shows and the fair, they would all sit together and even though Erin and I were there, we were never included. Now, Erin was friends with the kids but you know what happens - the parents' influence over the kids eventually shows and then - ka-blooie.
I was in 4-H and I was an advisor and even started my own club - someone else took it over when I moved out of state for awhile. It is difficult to bond with parents, but that comes with the territory when you are in a leadership position. You have to stay objective and encouraging to everyone!
With Erin's previous club, what bothered me the most was that when other members of the group were showing, the parents and the kids clapped for the rider, including me. I love to cheer them on! But, when Erin was showing, they really did ignore her. Maybe it was because she was the new kid and frequently placed higher in the class then the veteran kids? (doing the ol' chicken-neck motion here) Probably, but that is so petty. When Erin placed lower than another member, you better believe I was clapping for them and if Erin wasn't, she was reminded that she needed to be. And she did. Erin has a natural "seat," as its called, when it comes to riding horses. It really is something that she was meant to do. I know its hard for some when they work hard and don't place well - but its just the way things are. I am surprised they didn't try to test Erin for steroids! hehe
Right away at the new club I felt welcome. I even got a hug from the mother and daughter I had met before and an encouraging "we're so happy to have Erin with us." Then, after the meeting (very well done as well), another mother spoke to me without any heavy feeling of "have to since you are new" to it.
I love watching Erin show but it has been a solo trip for me because she is busy with the horse and the other parents in our club gathered in their tight little circle.
I have a good feeling about this year though. Heck, I will admit it, I am verging on the edge of excitement =)
I like talking to people (most of the time...) but in the last club, the parents were all in sort of a "click" so in order to be part of that, you almost had to infiltrate the outer layer by some spectacular feat. Apparently, I didn't have enough spectacular-rificness to offer. At shows and the fair, they would all sit together and even though Erin and I were there, we were never included. Now, Erin was friends with the kids but you know what happens - the parents' influence over the kids eventually shows and then - ka-blooie.
I was in 4-H and I was an advisor and even started my own club - someone else took it over when I moved out of state for awhile. It is difficult to bond with parents, but that comes with the territory when you are in a leadership position. You have to stay objective and encouraging to everyone!
With Erin's previous club, what bothered me the most was that when other members of the group were showing, the parents and the kids clapped for the rider, including me. I love to cheer them on! But, when Erin was showing, they really did ignore her. Maybe it was because she was the new kid and frequently placed higher in the class then the veteran kids? (doing the ol' chicken-neck motion here) Probably, but that is so petty. When Erin placed lower than another member, you better believe I was clapping for them and if Erin wasn't, she was reminded that she needed to be. And she did. Erin has a natural "seat," as its called, when it comes to riding horses. It really is something that she was meant to do. I know its hard for some when they work hard and don't place well - but its just the way things are. I am surprised they didn't try to test Erin for steroids! hehe
Right away at the new club I felt welcome. I even got a hug from the mother and daughter I had met before and an encouraging "we're so happy to have Erin with us." Then, after the meeting (very well done as well), another mother spoke to me without any heavy feeling of "have to since you are new" to it.
I love watching Erin show but it has been a solo trip for me because she is busy with the horse and the other parents in our club gathered in their tight little circle.
I have a good feeling about this year though. Heck, I will admit it, I am verging on the edge of excitement =)
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Grooving to the Oldies
This past Sunday in the children's worship, we were grooving to the oldies.
A new dvd appeared (not sure how it got there - I only know that it was there) that had motion songs on it, songs that were played 15 or more years ago for children but now have a more modern look.
After assigning instruments (we were cranking some mean air drums and guitars), we chose the song "Father Abraham." This song is one of those new classics as I found out from Dan and Jeremy - they still remember it from their Sunday School days and sang some of it for us during our Small Group.
When the song started playing, I thought, "yeah, these kids are going to get bored with this fast." All boys romping around and talking about their Star Wars figures, you can imagine.
But, they loved it. We played it at least three times. Then there were requests from the audience for another oldie but goodie, "Noah's Arky Arky" and then, "Zacchaeus (Was a Wee Little Man)."
It was really a lot of fun. We did have the videos playing on the television so that helped with keeping focus but the enthusiasm was all in the music.
A new dvd appeared (not sure how it got there - I only know that it was there) that had motion songs on it, songs that were played 15 or more years ago for children but now have a more modern look.
After assigning instruments (we were cranking some mean air drums and guitars), we chose the song "Father Abraham." This song is one of those new classics as I found out from Dan and Jeremy - they still remember it from their Sunday School days and sang some of it for us during our Small Group.
When the song started playing, I thought, "yeah, these kids are going to get bored with this fast." All boys romping around and talking about their Star Wars figures, you can imagine.
But, they loved it. We played it at least three times. Then there were requests from the audience for another oldie but goodie, "Noah's Arky Arky" and then, "Zacchaeus (Was a Wee Little Man)."
It was really a lot of fun. We did have the videos playing on the television so that helped with keeping focus but the enthusiasm was all in the music.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
The long and winding road
No, I am not a huge Beatle's fan, just makes me think of the path we walk on daily. I am hopeful that life will be long and the winding just makes it more interesting. I guess as long as we stay on the path, we'll be okay. =)
The trip home the other night was definitely winding and interesting! I left work at 4:15 and finally arrived at Dave's office @ 9:00. (Usually a 20 minute ride.) We arrived home at 9:45 - just in time to get ready for bed!
The trip home the other night was definitely winding and interesting! I left work at 4:15 and finally arrived at Dave's office @ 9:00. (Usually a 20 minute ride.) We arrived home at 9:45 - just in time to get ready for bed!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Here I sit...
at Panera. I first stopped at another Belcan office and hung out there for about an hour. The Jeep was groaning (beginning to overheat) so so had to be get off the road. Tried it again and it took me 30 minutes to go 2 miles. Needless to say, the Jeep was unhappy again so now I am at Panera while Dave waits patiently for me. But he had a fantastic day though! Be sure to ask him about it! It willgive him something to do while he waits for me =)
Traffic stinks
Traffic stinks...been sitting forever! If evryone else would only stay at work or home. I wouldn't have any trouble =)
Friday, January 30, 2009
Yes we do...No you don't...YES WE DO
Today, for the 2nd time in my life, I was told to leave the premises. (The first time is another story...)
I was finishing up moving an office and the owner showed up and was unhappy that her tenants, the company we purchased, were leaving. Our attorney said "get your stuff.". Her attorney, supposedly, said "we need more time."
The police said (yep, it almost got ugly) "get your stuff."
Score!
I love an adventure!!
I was finishing up moving an office and the owner showed up and was unhappy that her tenants, the company we purchased, were leaving. Our attorney said "get your stuff.". Her attorney, supposedly, said "we need more time."
The police said (yep, it almost got ugly) "get your stuff."
Score!
I love an adventure!!
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
What? A fun day at work?
It's nice to have a fun day at work. I have been tasked with packing up an office building over the next couple of days and although that doesn't sound like much fun, it was actually enjoyable today because my co-workers are great. We had to start our journey at the peak of this morning's snow storm - it was really bad on the roads and we had a lot of pit stops to make. With a 4-wheel drive truck and a smile on our faces, we headed out and made it safely to our destination. There was some intentional slipping and sliding and a lot of laughing. We had lunch out together and it's amazing what you find to talk about.
I have been feeling like the old-new kid on the block the last couple of months. Most of my new team sits on the direct opposite side of the building so I don't get to interact much with them. Lately though, we have been spending more time together and I am really enjoying getting to know each one. I know that all but two of the team are Christian - we share our faith with each other comfortably and that is so fantastic! Today I discovered that one guy not only sings with his church and is putting together a youth night of music for them, but whose stepfather and uncles have a fairly well-known group called "Voice Won."
So cool =)
I have been feeling like the old-new kid on the block the last couple of months. Most of my new team sits on the direct opposite side of the building so I don't get to interact much with them. Lately though, we have been spending more time together and I am really enjoying getting to know each one. I know that all but two of the team are Christian - we share our faith with each other comfortably and that is so fantastic! Today I discovered that one guy not only sings with his church and is putting together a youth night of music for them, but whose stepfather and uncles have a fairly well-known group called "Voice Won."
So cool =)
We watched in awe as the sky lit up in blue....
Unfortunately, somewhere in downtown Loveland electricity was arc'ing! We could only guess that a tree limb had fallen on an electric line. I heard large tree limbs falling this morning at home in the surrounding woods and we had to move some off of our road on our way out but fortunately, we still had power. No satellite though!! The dish is all iced over.
When I walked Copper last evening, he was loving the snow. If you say "Get the snow!" he jumps up and tries to grab snowflakes as they are falling. Cracks me up. Yes, as everyone knows, I love my dog... =) This morning though, different story on the ice covered snow. Every step was a cautious adventure for him. However, when he did step down, through the ice and into the snow, he would then stick his nose down into the new hole and sniff like he had just found a secret tunnel and then come up with a snow-covered muzzle and excited eyes.
Hope everyone is safe today!
When I walked Copper last evening, he was loving the snow. If you say "Get the snow!" he jumps up and tries to grab snowflakes as they are falling. Cracks me up. Yes, as everyone knows, I love my dog... =) This morning though, different story on the ice covered snow. Every step was a cautious adventure for him. However, when he did step down, through the ice and into the snow, he would then stick his nose down into the new hole and sniff like he had just found a secret tunnel and then come up with a snow-covered muzzle and excited eyes.
Hope everyone is safe today!
Monday, January 26, 2009
Complimentary Angles
Complimentary angles. That's what Dave and I must be. He likes diet pepsi and I like diet coke. He likes the white meat, I like the dark. When we order salads, he grabs any onion on mine, I grab the croutons from his. He is thinking of something and then I am asking him a question about that same thing. (He will laugh at me and yell "Stop doing that!") I forget something at home, he goes back to get it for me =)
I can slice nice thin pieces of tomato, he can fry the bacon.
Together we make a right angle.
I can slice nice thin pieces of tomato, he can fry the bacon.
Together we make a right angle.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
A long week
It's been a hectic week of hosting a training class. And if there is any doubt about the truth in that, when I got out of the shower this morning, Dave said that if I were holding a cup of coffee, I would look like the picture P-Ray posted 1.18.09. =)
Monday, January 19, 2009
Push those boundaries!
Getting in shape is a great goal...but I have to say there is just something wrong about a man sitting at his desk on one of those huge orange pilate exercise balls.
Just wrong... lol
Just wrong... lol
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Breaking Habits
New Year's resolutions are usually about creating good habits - or in reality, breaking bad ones. Not an easy task though sometimes. Here's where self discipline comes in.
So, wouldn't it be nice to have some reliable tips for kicking these habits?
If you have any helpful hints for others on a habit you have broken, are working on, etc., comment it here!
First, always begin any journey with prayer!
Next, here are two of mine:
Smoking - I smoked off and on for years. Finally, I quit and I found it helpful to drink a whole glass of water whenever I had a craving. It killed the urge. It also helped to have type of hard candy handy.
I have been cigarette free for eight years
Drinking out of the milk jug - Buy your milk from Sam's! No way you can drink from that thing without it going all down the front of yourself... =)
So, wouldn't it be nice to have some reliable tips for kicking these habits?
If you have any helpful hints for others on a habit you have broken, are working on, etc., comment it here!
First, always begin any journey with prayer!
Next, here are two of mine:
Smoking - I smoked off and on for years. Finally, I quit and I found it helpful to drink a whole glass of water whenever I had a craving. It killed the urge. It also helped to have type of hard candy handy.
I have been cigarette free for eight years
Drinking out of the milk jug - Buy your milk from Sam's! No way you can drink from that thing without it going all down the front of yourself... =)
Friday, January 16, 2009
You know it's cold when...
The dog goes back to bed.
This morning Copper got up with us as usual and was taken outside. When he came back in, he ran directly upstairs and got back in bed!
Lucky dog.
This morning Copper got up with us as usual and was taken outside. When he came back in, he ran directly upstairs and got back in bed!
Lucky dog.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Moving on
If anyone read what I wrote yesterday, I am sorry for ranting. It was a time of emotional response and since I can't vent to anyone at work, I used this space. I read it again later and gave myself a literal kick in the butt for posting it.
For me, this space is supposed to be about sharing my walk with Jesus with others - not about trite work incidents. It has to be personal because, well, it is personal! But petty little incidents are not worthy of my time or anyone else's for that matter.
Okay, Moving on...
Last night I listened to John's message from Sunday by downloading the podcast from I-Tunes. We at CP are so fortunate to have such a great guy to assist Ray with the messages. 10 thumbs up!
Reading Ray's blog, it is very scary to think that someone could come in to our church and just starting blasting. It seems to be one of those things that we think couldn't happen to us but the reality is that it could. Makes you think.
For me, this space is supposed to be about sharing my walk with Jesus with others - not about trite work incidents. It has to be personal because, well, it is personal! But petty little incidents are not worthy of my time or anyone else's for that matter.
Okay, Moving on...
Last night I listened to John's message from Sunday by downloading the podcast from I-Tunes. We at CP are so fortunate to have such a great guy to assist Ray with the messages. 10 thumbs up!
Reading Ray's blog, it is very scary to think that someone could come in to our church and just starting blasting. It seems to be one of those things that we think couldn't happen to us but the reality is that it could. Makes you think.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Bacon-Challenged
Hi, my name is Trish and I can't fry bacon.
Okay, I attempt to fix it but it is either too crunchy or too chewy. I fixed a pound last night to include with fan-tabulous baked potato soup and threw it away! Dave graciously offered to fix some more and guess what? It turned out beautiful.
But, the real problem isn't that I can't fry it, it's that I am inconsistent. When I do fry bacon, at least one person in my house is happy because Dave likes it crunchy and Erin likes it chewy. So, the real issues are -
1. Consistency. No two times are alike! crunchy, chewy, crunchy, chewy
2. Satisfying. Trying to please two different people with the same thing at the same time is difficult.
So, these two things realy made me think (while Dave fried up the next pound, I had to time to ponder...)
Being consistent. For those who are OCD (or CDO), this probably isn't a challenge. But for those like me who have ten different things going on all at once and have OCD as well, it CAN be a challenge. Something to work on. ** Along with consistency comes dependability (can I get a "Uh Huh!")
Satisfying more than one person. Another lesson. We're all different and have different, although similar, needs. I have really learned a lot about this while serving with children at CP and over the years with soccer, scouts, 4-H, etc.
There are some children who want to participate, some who want to serve, and some who just want to "do." All of these are great traits and definitely necessary and make any children's class well-rounded. If you have ten kids all wanting to just "do" that would be a little difficult! As the big kid, you have to get to know each child and what gets them into the message. Whether it be reading from the Bible, handing out supplies, or commenting on the lesson, or even just listening, they each need to be involved in some way for the message to be effective.
So there is my admission for the day. I can relate anything to food. =)
Okay, I attempt to fix it but it is either too crunchy or too chewy. I fixed a pound last night to include with fan-tabulous baked potato soup and threw it away! Dave graciously offered to fix some more and guess what? It turned out beautiful.
But, the real problem isn't that I can't fry it, it's that I am inconsistent. When I do fry bacon, at least one person in my house is happy because Dave likes it crunchy and Erin likes it chewy. So, the real issues are -
1. Consistency. No two times are alike! crunchy, chewy, crunchy, chewy
2. Satisfying. Trying to please two different people with the same thing at the same time is difficult.
So, these two things realy made me think (while Dave fried up the next pound, I had to time to ponder...)
Being consistent. For those who are OCD (or CDO), this probably isn't a challenge. But for those like me who have ten different things going on all at once and have OCD as well, it CAN be a challenge. Something to work on. ** Along with consistency comes dependability (can I get a "Uh Huh!")
Satisfying more than one person. Another lesson. We're all different and have different, although similar, needs. I have really learned a lot about this while serving with children at CP and over the years with soccer, scouts, 4-H, etc.
There are some children who want to participate, some who want to serve, and some who just want to "do." All of these are great traits and definitely necessary and make any children's class well-rounded. If you have ten kids all wanting to just "do" that would be a little difficult! As the big kid, you have to get to know each child and what gets them into the message. Whether it be reading from the Bible, handing out supplies, or commenting on the lesson, or even just listening, they each need to be involved in some way for the message to be effective.
So there is my admission for the day. I can relate anything to food. =)
Friday, January 9, 2009
You say Tomato
I say "Ragu'
Dave and I had are Thursday night date night and stopped for some soup. I haven't been feeling well so soup has been the only thing on the menu this week.
I love Campbell's tomato soup - my papa made it for me as a kid and I have been hooked since. However, the tomato soup I ordered for dinner last night was wretched! I looked at it, smelled it, and then looked at Dave and said...this smells disgusting. It smelled like spaghetti sauce! Okay, so I was brave and took a spoonful and the smell didn't lie...it tasted like Ragu spaghetti sauce! I thought I was going to lose it right there.
On a positive note, I took the soup back to the counter and the person behind the counter agreed with me and let me have a different soup instead. Customer service wins every time you know.
Dave and I had are Thursday night date night and stopped for some soup. I haven't been feeling well so soup has been the only thing on the menu this week.
I love Campbell's tomato soup - my papa made it for me as a kid and I have been hooked since. However, the tomato soup I ordered for dinner last night was wretched! I looked at it, smelled it, and then looked at Dave and said...this smells disgusting. It smelled like spaghetti sauce! Okay, so I was brave and took a spoonful and the smell didn't lie...it tasted like Ragu spaghetti sauce! I thought I was going to lose it right there.
On a positive note, I took the soup back to the counter and the person behind the counter agreed with me and let me have a different soup instead. Customer service wins every time you know.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Would you like a Free Lunch?
Are you ready for some...
Serious Movement?
Unbelievable Excitement?
Outrageously Super-Hyped Kids who love Jesus?
I am! We've been stirring in the community - now its time to rock-it! (rocket????)
Anybody else ready to feed the children with the Fan-Tabulous news about Jesus? If you are then we NEED you! Please email me at tbegley@belcan.com and let me know that you want to be a part of building the greatest children's program around.
It's time. It's here. It's now.
(It's past time! It has been here! It should have been yesterday!)
We'll have a kick-off lunch-n-learn and map out a spectacular path for the year.
Oh yeah, that means Free Food =)
If you google "42"...
...the first result is quotes from "The Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy."
Thank you all so much for the well wishes!!
Thank you all so much for the well wishes!!
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything
42
=)
Yes, I am 42 years old today. And, one of my all time favorite books is "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy." (not the movie...) If you have read it, you will appreciate the # 42. The version of the book that I own is a trilogy, in four parts!
If not, you could also say what is the answer to 6 x 9? 42 (in base 13...)
=)
Yes, I am 42 years old today. And, one of my all time favorite books is "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy." (not the movie...) If you have read it, you will appreciate the # 42. The version of the book that I own is a trilogy, in four parts!
If not, you could also say what is the answer to 6 x 9? 42 (in base 13...)
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
